Everyone is the MAIN CHARACTER in their Story

What is the most scary moment? What are you proud of the most? What do you think about the most? See, how I did not ask you a direct question but all your answers were somewhere or the other linked with your personal experiences. Over the years, i have come to realise that everybody sees themselves as the MAIN CHARACTER of their lives and also loves to think that all eyes are on them. People tend not to be their true selves or do what they want to just because of the impression that would leave on the people about them. Which is reasonable to some extent, but most of the time people tend to forget what happened in their day because they are their life’s main character and not you. I know this might sound rude, but this is the truth. You are just a side character in your friends life, parents life, and even in your spouse’s life. If you think of that, you might understand how important and right this is. In the era where self love is rare, most people tend to devote their life to someone they think is the true love of their lives. I’ve been there as well, I devoted every aspect of my life to someone who later made me feel bad about it. If I could fix one thing in that relationship, that would be treating them just like an important aspect in my life and not like my whole life. My life is mine, and I am the main character. This is the reason everyone thinks they are the only person who should be in control of their lives. As losing the control of their own lives, might signify that they are not the main characters which is really hard to wrap your head around. Some might need reassurance of being the main character and get happy when they get importance and attention. Others might not need that reassurance. The main reason why someone might need reassurance are insecurities. Insecurities of not being pretty enough, smart enough, or generally just not being enough. Praises, attention and importance fills the void their insecurities created. Being the main character of your life isn’t a bad thing, but treating others like they mean nothing is not the right thing to do. Forget what others might think of you, and just be you because it’s a very short life and you don’t want to spend that life by being a prisoner of the thoughts of others. Just Live your Life while you Breathe, So you don’t Regret when you are out of Breaths.