Hold On, No Matter How Dark It Gets!

How are you? Don’t lie, be honest to yourself if you have not been feeling good enough. Well, it’s okay to not be okay is a very common saying these days but it’s true. The problem isn’t about not being okay, but it actually is about us thinking that no one can understand us which is true but that doesn’t mean we can’t talk about it. What would be life if we understood everything? I may not be able to get what you feel but I am going through something in my life where I just feel like a mess like you do and it doesn’t matter if you have more or less problems in your life because what we are experiencing is actually the first time we feel it and it hurt really bad.

Talk to someone about it or not, write it down or not, share it or not, but give me your hand and just be with me knowing that no matter what happens, we have ourselves. You are probably going through something you were not prepared for. You are probably fighting just to get out of bed or you just want a ray of hope and happiness in your life just to keep going on. I can’t tell you if it would be fine soon or not because I am not the person who can give you false hopes. But everything will be worth going through.

I used to believe that sharing or writing your feelings can help reduce the burden and maybe it does but what to do if you can’t put things going on in your head into words? I am a person who has a lot of things bothering me all the time but I can’t seem to explain my thoughts to someone else because even I don’t know what those are. Well, my thoughts are too complicated even for me to understand. So, I have made peace with the fact that I need to fix my life myself without any body else.

My life is a mess and so is every body else’s. Hold on, no matter how dark it gets. You are doing well and it’s not the end of everything just yet. You matter, you are very strong and I am happy to see you fighting back every other day. ❤